Ten practical and wise things a girl should do to enter school and finish successfully in peace, without unnecessary trouble.



Ten practical and wise things a girl should do to enter school and finish successfully in peace, without unnecessary trouble. 


1. Set a Clear Purpose for School

A girl should know why she is in school—education, skills, future opportunities, and personal growth. When purpose is clear, distractions lose their power. Purpose keeps the mind focused when temptations arise.

2. Choose Friends Carefully

Friends can make or break a school journey. Keep company with people who value education, discipline, and good behaviour. Avoid friends who are always in trouble, disrespect authority, or pressure others into bad choices.

African adage: “Show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are.”

3. Maintain Personal Discipline

Discipline means knowing when to say no—to laziness, immorality, lateness, cheating, and unnecessary drama. A disciplined girl protects her time, body, reputation, and future.

4. Respect School Rules and Authorities

Rules are not meant to punish but to protect. Respect teachers, lecturers, school staff, and regulations. Many students get into trouble not because they are bad, but because they are careless with authority.

5. Focus on Academics First

Books before parties. Assignments before gossip. Classes before distractions. Academic seriousness brings peace, confidence, and respect. When grades are strong, pressure reduces.

6. Avoid Risky Relationships

Many school troubles come from unhealthy relationships—emotional, sexual, or peer-pressure-driven. A girl who guards her heart and body avoids pregnancy, emotional pain, blackmail, and shame that can disrupt her education.

7. Manage Time Wisely

Plan study time, rest time, and social time. Procrastination creates stress, fear, and failure. A well-organised student finishes school with fewer crises.

8. Speak Up When in Danger

Silence can be dangerous. If facing harassment, bullying, threats, or abuse, report early to parents, guardians, school authorities, or trusted adults. Seeking help is wisdom, not weakness.

9. Maintain Good Character and Reputation

Reputation travels faster than the body. Avoid lies, fights, indecent behaviour, and public scandals. A good name brings favour, protection, and peace throughout school life.

10. Stay Connected to Positive Values

Whether through faith, moral training, or mentorship, a girl needs a strong value system. Values act as an inner compass when no one is watching and choices must be made alone.

Final Wisdom

A girl who enters school with focus, discipline, and values will not only finish in peace but will leave with honour, knowledge, and a strong future.

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