THE PRE-WEDDING DANGER ZONES
THE PRE-WEDDING DANGER ZONES by Ikechukwu Frank She walked into my office with a smile that was fighting a battle her heart had already lost. Her wedding was only six weeks away, yet her eyes carried the heaviness of someone dragging a future she did not choose. Family members were calling her lucky. Friends were pressuring her to “secure the man before someone else takes him.” Aunties reminded her that her age mates had already married. And the community’s voice echoed loudly in her ears—“Don’t disappoint us.” But when I asked her one simple question—“Do you truly want this marriage?”—the tears she had tightly imprisoned finally broke loose. Her answer came like a wounded whisper: “I don’t know. I just don’t want to disappoint people.” At that moment, I realised she was not preparing for a wedding; she was preparing for an escape—an escape from expectations, pressure, judgement, fear, and shame. She was about to say “I do” to please a world that would not follow her home a...